Tuesday, 8 December 2015

Surrender.... but Don't Give Up

There are times in one's life when things keep going the wrong way and at times you find yourself asking HIM (the supreme power) , " O God, What wrong have I ever done in my life to deserve such a treatment ". While all these ups and downs are still continuing in your life , HE comes up with another set of setbacks for you which almost halts every priority of your life. You feel as if nothing worse could happen . You find yourself questioning your decision making capabilities.Its a kind of STILL state , a state of complete numbness. It is then you would want to throw another ball at HIS court asking, "Did you really think there was more that I could handle. Wasn't whatever I already had enough?". Slowly, very slowly you gather your determination & collect all the pieces of tattered strength and hop on your recovery path. You start counting each day as it passes in a hope for better tomorrow and your mind starts telling you that bad times will soon be over..

"Does that happen with you often ? does this sound familiar to your story at some point or the other? If yes , then read on....."

If you had thought that bad times will be over soon and life would be back on track soon , then pause here as the worst hadn't happened yet. There were even more events to add to the already messed up life of yours . Yes, that happens.. and then you break down. It is the time when you would want to give up on everything u have or once possessed. It is the time when you would want to surrender. It is the time when you would want to cry your heart out as you had been strong for just too long.
But then , I would also want to tell you that , it is also the time , the moment just before a new beginning. It is the moment where worse has already happened and life will start a reverse gear anytime soon with no choice but to be better and better on...

Yes, trust me on this. If you had felt like surrendering yourself...then..
              DO SURRENDER..... BUT NEVER EVER GIVE UP...
One day you will be glad that you didn't.

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Some things are intended to break you down , so that you can build yourself up , better and better. Some events are intended to break you down,  so that you can test your limits and create new limits for yourself which would take you to newer heights.
And trust me , some events pass through our lives in a shorter timeframe than we had hoped, not to break us down but to teach us things they never could have if they would have stayed.
Things are intended to break you down so that you can become fearless . Fearless of losing something... Fearless of "what worse can happen?" . In turn, this would help you to prepare yourself to leave everything behind and head towards a new beginning.

Forget all what happened and all what bothered you. Forgive all those who impacted you badly.. But never forget the lesson for it adds to your experience.. For it adds to your maturity. For it changes your attitude towards the way you would look at things.

And above all, carry this faith all along , that bad times come only to prepare yourself to become what you dream of...

So once again, NEVER GIVE UP.. Remember that every failure takes you one step closer to success.